Spontaneity is key.

Being out of my element is enjoyable to me. I am constantly pushing myself to expand my horizons and get myself out of a certain comfort zone. It's no suprise I'm growing up to be this way...after years of an unpredictable lifestyle, I crave the next big adventure. Back in college, my friends coined "spontaneity is key", which is what we still strive to live for...although we are miles away from the wide-eyed innocents we were back then.

I suppose this is why I'm tattooed, pierced and had all sort of different stages in a span of the past ten years. After a lengthy conversation at dinner with Nancy on Friday, in which we talked about our futures, careers, sex and our friendships, it reinforced my goal to push my limits this year. Professionally and personally, I'm getting a better picture of the man I'm striving to be...

A good man that lives his life with no regrets. Looking back on the almost-25 years of my existence...I have no regrets, nor do I plan on having any.

The next night after that conversation...I hit up speed-dating with some of the fellas...and boy did some limits get pushed further out...think Hitch but fobby, but that's another story.